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Self help question

Hi all these are few questions I’m asking to you please answer to these all question that’s kind of a conversation between you and me

1. Name

Ans. Nikhat Parveen

2
School/collage/university

Ans. St. Anthony’s Girls sr. Sec school

3
Your age ?

Ans. 16

4
What you do for survival ?

Ans. For Survival , basically i think everybody has their Own ways . I just try to be happy in what i always had in a moment.

5
Do you like traveling ??

Ans. Yes

6
What inspire you most in your life ??

Ans. Music inspires me alot.

7
What you wanna be in your life ??

Ans. Singer

8
Am I who I want to be ?

Ans. I guess I Am. And i Can.

9
What are you so afraid of ?

Ans. Losing my love ones .

10
What would you be doing if you had six month to live ?

Ans. If I’ll be have only six months left ,then most probably i would prefer to travel to my dream destination and say thank you personally to every single person who made me smile and happy and confident even for a single second.

11
What do you hate ?

Ans. People with low self esteem and self belief.

12
Are you using your strength ?

Ans. I’m not an adult yet .but i AM using my strength in every possible way I’m capable of.

13
What will happen if you continue to live this way ?

Ans. I’ll not mind. I love what i have now . I know how to cherish every moment and make feel others loved .

14
When is the last time you’ve gone outside of your comfort zone ?

Ans. I’m am an ambivert. Couple of months back i joined some chatrooms of kpop fandom , it was at that time was little hard for me to get along well but i tried and made many good friends.

15
Is your health helping or harming your purpose in your life ?

Ans. Yes i guess. It’s harming me .

16
Are you moving in the right direction to achieve success in your life

Ans. I don’t know what I’m doing will take me to the right direction or not but I’m that much sure that whatever NOW I’m doing is making me day by day love ME more.

17
What do you do for fun ?

Ans. I Read Fictions .

18
How much do you worry about what others think ?

Ans. To be honest, i used to think and worry A LOT .But now i ignore them like it never exists .

19
What have been your biggest mistakes ?

Ans. To let someone make me fool though i was aware that the person is a fault.

20
Your favourite place ?

Ans. South Korea

21
Your favourite food ?

Ans . Anything ,but it should be spicy.

22
Your achievements in life ??

Ans. Though I’m only 16 but i presented my school in an art zonal competition when i was in 6th grade and won the 1 place.  My Poem is about to publish in an anthology book. Unicef korea follows me at my Instagram as I’m a regular viewer there. I’m a freelance writer at Hallyuism_india . I Earn. I give tutions and manage to pay for my own stuff when required.

23
Where you wanna see yourself after 10 year ?

Ans. As a strong and Highkey version of my dad.

24
What you think of life ?

Ans. I think it’s an opportunity given to us to explore and discover new things daily and learn from them.

25
Do you believe in religion ??
Yes/no

Ans . No.

26
Who is your role model ??

Ans. BTS

27
What changes you wanna see in life ??

Ans. I want to give my father everything he is sacrificing right now just to make us feel safe and exquisite.

28
Are you happy with life ??
Yes/No

Ans. Yes

29
How you keep yourself happy

Ans. I love listening music. It is my power pill.

30
What you want to achieve in your life ?

Ans. I want to achieve my Father’s proud gesture towards me. I want to make him feel that his parenting didn’t went wrong.

31
What is your weekness ?

Ans. My Father

32
What’s your strength ?

My Father and my self confidence.

33
What makes you worried in your life ?

Ans. I always gets worried whatif i loose my precious ones whom i adore in my existence.

34
Whats your philosophy in life ?

Ans. My philosophy is , If a thing gives you happiness for even a second then that thing is GOOD for you.

35
What’s the one thing you would like to change about yourself

Ans. Sensitive persona

36
Are you religious or spiritual ??

Ans. Not really.

37
Do you consider yourself on introvert or extrovert ??

Ans. I consider myself as an AMBIVERT.

38
What was the best phase in your life ?

Ans. When i realised that i can do things which i can not even imagine and which are beyond of my capabilities.

39
What was the worst phase in your life ?

Ans. When i lost my mom at the age of 12.

40
What’s your favourite book/movie of all time and why did it speak to you so much ?

Ans. My Favourite Book is *SUBTLE ART OF NOT GIVING A FUCK* BY MARK MANSON. it really made me realized that what type of persona i have. And what are the things I’m lacking in by worrying for an unnecessary things.

41
Are you more into looks or brain ??

Ans. Brain . Especially people with IQ around 148.

42
How do you feel about sharing your password with your partner ?

Ans. I’m only 16 , Oopsie no partner .

43
When do you think a person is ready for marriage

And. I guess . The person is ready for marriage when he/she knows their own worth and thier capabilities and potential to carry on the future  relationship .

44
What kind of parents do you think you will be ?

Ans. A kind of therapist maybe 😉

45
Have you ever lost someone close to you ?

And . Yes , My mom.

46
What’s an ideal weekend for you ?

Ans. Spotify on , Coffee on one hand and book on another with dim lights and Rainy scenario.

47
Do you judge a book by it’s cover ??

Ans. No

48
Do you believe in second chance ?

And. I do.

49
What are you most thankful for ?

Ans. That I’m breathing at this very moment.

50
What’s the one thing that people always misunderstand you ?

Ans. That she must be not knowing about the happenings Occuring in the world. In a simple text , unaware of outside world.

51
What did you past relationship teach you ?

Ans. Didn’t had in a relationship.

52
If a genie granted you 3 wishes right now, what would you wish for ?

Ans. I want my mom back , i want to meet my ideals whom I’m inspired from, happiness for my friends .

53
What’s your biggest regret in life ?

Ans. I let a person fool me.

54
What do you think you are still single ?

Ans. I guess people right now prefer fun rather then having conversation about real issues . It is not like i don’t Fun around but when it’s not i prefer Not.

55
What are three things you value most about a person ?

Ans. Not Judgemental at first sight ,Brain ,and how he/ she treats people.

56
What is the greatest struggle you’ve overcome ?

Ans. Covid-19

57
Who was your favourite teacher and why ?

Ans. There is one tutor of mine UK , i call her UK . She is the very first person who made me think that i CAN come out from my comfort zone. She basically moulded me into a mature person.

58
What is weirdest things about you ?

Ans. I’m Sensitive and clumsy.

59
What food could you not live without ?

Ans. Chicken made by my father.

60
What your best birthday ??

Ans. Last year when i prefered my birthday celebration outdoor.

61
When was the last time you told yourself that “I LOVE MYSELF”

Ans. Few hours ago. Haha, As my ideals are BTS how can i forget to say I love myself.

In last say few words for Me .

I don’t know you yet. But seems a nice and genuine person. Must be of good persona.

Thanks

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व अन्य सभी जगह पर  एक शब्द और है जो बहुत तेज़ी से बढ़ रहा है ओर पिछले 2 महिन से यह शब्द बहुत प्रचलित हो चुका है जिसको हमे समझना चाहिए और इस शब्द का पालन भी करना चाहिए।
Social Distancing
उचित दूरी बनाए रखे
संग दोष से बचाव = किसी के साथ नहीं रहना बाहर वाला आपके संपर्क से दूर और आप भी सभी से उचित दूरी बनाए शारीरिक तथा यहां हम मानसिक विचारो से दूरी बनाए क्युकी स्वयं को मजबूत बनाना है इस समय नकरात्मक विचारो का प्रभाव हम ना पड़े
भीड़ वाले इलाके में ना जाए साथ ही भीड़ एकत्रित ना होने दे
“भीड़ और झुण्ड” यह दोनों शब्द अब बहिष्कृत हो जाएंगे
“भेड़ चाल” यह शब्द गायब होगा अगले कुछ समय में
एकला चलो
असंग
स्वयं के साथ ज्यादा समय व्यतीत करना।
Self Quarantine  =

किसी को छूना नहीं ,किसी का स्पर्श नहीं लेना घर के सदस्यों से भी उचित दूरी बनाए रखना

अब यह एक शब्द है स्वयं को एक कमरे के भीतर ही रखना और आत्ममंथन करना  यदि आप चिड़चिड़ा या भीड़ के साथ नहीं रहना तो खुद एक अलग बंद कमरे में रह सकते हो और स्वयं के लिए बहुत कुछ सोच सकते , जिसे आप आत्म उत्थान कह सकते है इसी एक चीज के लोग घर छोड़ दिया करते थे परन्तु प्रकृति ने ये संदेश दिया है कि स्वयं के साथ रहे और स्वयं का निर्माण करे
सेल्फ ग्रूम = self Grooming

Home Quarantine = खुद को घर में कैद कर लेना और कहीं बाहर नहीं जाना यह भी एक अच्छा विचार है दुनिया की भीड़ से बिल्कुल अलग हो जाना और स्वयं के चित को शांत करना अपने परिवार के साथ खूब सारी बाते करना और बतियाना ना फोन की जरूरत ना किसी ओर चीज की आवश्यकता गृहस्थ जीवन ही अति सुखदाई अपने परिवार संग अपने समय का लाभ उठाओ और परिवार जन सहित अपने जीवन को सार्थक करो।